The cycle of unfilial


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Near an old lady, over the years by daughter-in-law's, her family, became the streets often talk about the topic,

Old lady original family circumstances is not bad, but the son's incompetence, nearly 40 years old, to marry the daughter-in-law, is a shotgun at that time, the old couple to look forward to long, very not easy to marry the daughter-in-law, grandson also had, all day happily from ear to ear, daughter-in-law is a man of very have calculation, there to see the old man to marry daughter-in-law and eager to sun, moved to the state of mind, asked parents to buy for her son's marriage room, first as the belongings before marriage, written in her a personal name, the old couple afraid there is a mistake, what condition all promised, on the daughter-in-law, she came to the house only to write her a person's name,

Nazhi soon marry into the door, the couple quarrel, daughter-in-law is the cool kid dozen, now the old couple was dumbfounded, they want to grandson wants to crazy, just this one son, was forty, had a baby is a small couples natural thing, but more think about what you have, the easier it becomes someone else take hold of the handle, it's not, daughter-in-law now forced they held the decades old house was sold, and gave her to buy a car, or you didn't give them born grandson, the old couple a listen to, spirit not dozen 1 come, can get angry angry, look at the older son, not to have children again, I will not, and no child, the son is the future of marriage is not stable, they have to and in accordance with the daughter-in-law, I sold the house and live to the home son daughter-in-law,

Couple were now feeling is bad, often divorce, grandson also doesn't even have the shadow, the old couple live in writing in the house, and his wife name must see her face, dare not out of the atmosphere, afraid to annoy her, really divorced, please don't again to the son daughter-in-law, grandson also don't become, a first child have to live up to the street,

Neighbors all felt sorry for the old couple, the daughter-in-law is speechless, said her daughter-in-law, it is not authentic, don't speak face to face, pointing people behind many,

But it dig down, it seemed, the old lady good USES harsh when I was younger, her mother-in-law behavior, that is not the average person can do, notoriously unfilial, heard that on one occasion, her mother-in-law to her house, she ran out to hide, people tell her mother-in-law, she said don't know,

Who the old lady very much in my life, and she didn't also way, her husband before she was afraid afraid of, coveys her, people afraid of malicious, heaven is not afraid of hard, never owned a thing down, now come to the old, turn to her son to marry daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law, let daughter-in-law to put down, more severe, all have a soft place; Unfilial, will be called for more unfilial,

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One time watching the news on channel, hunan province, in order to mediate the problem of family support, reporters to the scene of the old lady's house, in the interview, clashed with sons and daughters, her the great grandson of 15 or 16, pointing to the old man's nose, and a ladle scoop pioneer, poured on the old lady in public, fecal water flows down the gray hair on the clothes, look at that old woman hobbled away dirt road in the village of figure, untold bleak,

Old man in the village then a reporter to interview, said that many children is wrong, but one of the old man come up to a surprising word: "this is when she was young to in-laws, here are notoriously unfilial", this one out, let the scene sharp-tongued quick tongue reporter was stuck, could have been cut to the one-sided, instantly falls between two stools,

Write down this two examples of life, rights and wrongs, and at that time the silent, thinking of the good static senior learning Buddha in the heart lotus in the group of words, just as a footnote: "we all have countless reasons with all sorts of excuses, to blame the parents, but true to his old that day, you will find all kinds of life, wheel back to myself, the reason with excuses, is how stupid and weak,"

Comments:

Used to listen to my father about revolt when he was young, my grandma sighed: "ah, you still can not from my door? (means you also want to old) "then my father brother sa successively, to soldiers during the Korean, big uncle's company was adowa in as well, he's lying dead comrades and feign death day and night, only narrowly escape back troops, two uncle soon again on north Korea to the front, the father then to soldiers, such as big uncle and two uncle came, and know their life experiences, grandma is very fear and sorrow, then no roads, no electricity, no phone, no newspaper, even few, who can read the message very out-of-the-way, remote village, don't know what happened to the outside world, grandma every day after the last, on the hill looking son come back, my father is a soldier for six years, grandma cry for six years, cried nearly blind eyes, the body is becoming more and more bad, very not easy for my father retired, died a few years, my father often talk to me about this matter, endless regret and sad,
Confucius said: "the trees may prefer calm but the wind will not subside, son to raise and close not to, and to not chase, and years; To not have to see, kiss,"